I felt so alone when Charlotte died. Finding websites, connecting with other mamas and realizing I wasn't the only lost one made those first few weeks - which are so awful as to be indescribable - bearable. I hope these resources help you, or someone you love, feel less alone and scared.
An Exact Replica of a Figment of My Imagination by Elizabeth McCracken: Beautiful book, but she does talk about her second child.
They Were Stillborn: Personal Stories about Stillbirth by Janel C. Atlas: Just published in December. Haven't read it, but heard great things.
If stopping the milk supply is not right for you, let it dry up naturally, or donate to a milk bank. Below are three of the many options for milk donation.